How I Keep The Many Sides Of Me Feeling Confident + Fresh Through Summer + Beyond

This post is sponsored by Summer's Eve® but the content and opinions expressed are my own.

As a woman I am many things.

That is to say that there are many sides which make up one amazingly fierce/creative/passionate/strong/intelligent/funny ME.

I wish I could say I identify with one aspect more than the others but, the truth is, in any given day I may harness any number of these sides. That is to say I'm a right ol' mess.

And I wouldn't have it any other way.

One thing, however, that remains consistent is the need for even the fiercest sides of me to remain feeling confident and fresh, especially during the Summer when my schedule really picks up.

Since I know that every woman has many sides, just like me, I want to take a little time today to share how I keep some of my favorite sides feeling confident not just through the hectic, warm, crazy months ahead, but year-round as well.

The first ME, the frilly slightly silly, accessory obsessed, beauty queen, fashionista-in-training, HGTV binging ME is in truth one of my more insecure sides.

While this side of myself can be colorful and loud on the outside, thanks to bold cosmetics and head-turning fashions, I find I often second guess myself when choosing what to wear  and how to present myself in public. If I'm just throwing on some kicks and jeggings to go raid the local Target I'm Cool. Calm. Collected- but when it comes time to dress with the intent of being in front of others I tend to love my nerve.

So for every Beauty Queen Fashionista side out there, here are a few of my favorite tips to keep your head up and feeling confident when that Pinterest Smokey Eye Attempt has you feeling like a weeping raccoon:

•  Find your signature piece and don't be afraid to use it EVERYWHERE- You know that necklace you've had since college graduation, that funky chunky ring you got in the costume jewelry bargain bin, or those sparkly flats that make you feel like Dorothy ascending to Oz in her hot air balloon? Pick a piece to become your staple and rock it on all of your looks. This way you'll always feel confident, even when you're trying something fresh and new for you.
• Fill up with the right FUEL- What you put in your mouth matters. Don't worry, I'm not here to give you some lecture about the importance of greens over ice cream/s. As they say, balance is everything, and sometimes you really do need that triple frosted pink sprinkle donut to get you through a particularly stressful day. However, as a rule of thumb, I prefer to suggest starting with foods that fuel your brain, and heart before reaching for the quick fix of sweet treats and indulgences.
• Start FRESH- One of the biggest keys to rocking the outwardly flashy beauty and fashion focused side is to start by feeling fresh and clean from the canvas level. I'm talking, of course, about good hygiene. As a woman who loves heels and A-Line skirts I know that the hottest fashion can quickly demand a toll as heels begin to ache and thighs begin to chafe all in the name of looking damn good. Before I get ready to dress up I always start by elevating my freshness with clinically tested Summer's Eve feminine hygiene products that are pH balanced and help keep my most intimate parts fresh.

Tossing it back to that more CASUAL side of me, the girl who loves rolling in the grass with her pups, wears the same outfit every time her team plays their rivals, and can't drive past a Target on the way home without stopping in for a"quick" look at what's new-

Casual Me is one I embrace. You might say it's the easiest side in that sense.

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Of course starting out your day confident and fresh quickly becomes a mute point when my FIERCE side takes over. You know, the one who trains for 6 months for a mud run that promises to make me scale an 8 foot wall and climb through 5' mountain trenches of mud. Yea, some days I don't know what that side of me was thinking.

So for every "I run for the high," "It's not fun unless you feel the burn," and "I really don't want to, but I'm going to go to the gym because it's good for me" side, here are my favorite tips to stay feeling fresh and confident:

• Tackle everything with SMALL GOALS- Big goals are great. They're the goaliest of goals, but it's the small milestones, the minuscule markers that really help us stay motivated and feel great about what we're doing. No marker, not number, no achievement is too small to reach for and celebrate.
• Don't be afraid to INVEST IN YOURSELF- Whatever it is you've set your mind to, no matter how much discomfort is sure to come as you strive to meet your targets and break your own personal records, you deserve to be confident and as comfortable as possible doing it. Whether this means wearing the rattiest old over-sized sweater on your morning sweat runs, or buying that new $80 pair of compression yoga pants that just 'happen' to make your ass look FAB. Invest in what makes you feel comfortable and confident and you'll instantly increase your success potential.

Speaking of feeling fresh and confident to increase your comfort levels- Just because the workout has ended doesn't mean your day is a wrap. Many of us find ourselves fitting this FIERCE and ACTIVE side in where we can. This may be before dropping the kids off at school, on a lunch break at work, or before running our to catch a drink with friends. Be sure to always pack everything you need to feel RE-FRESHED and comfortable after you're let your FIERCE flag flay. Summer's Eve® Blissful Escape™ Cleansing Cloths are the perfect solution anywhere and anytime. With a discreet, individually packaged, clinically tested cleansing cloth in a refreshing scent to help wipe away the undesired effects of working hard for those goals.

Which brings me to that CREATIVE side- The one that spies a "FREE" sign on a beat up piece of furniture on the side of the road and envisions a retro-chic wet bar with a new coat of paint and Moscow Mule display. The one that mismatched their socks all through High School because nobody else was doing it. Or even the one that absolutely loved every moment of their best friend's "Paint And Sip" Bachelorette Party, even though their dolphin more resembles a whale.

Creatives typically don't lack confidence, making this one of the easiest sides to nurture, in my humble opinion. The true secret to harnessing a fresh outlook and confident approach to one's creative side is to embrace creativity as your own self expression. In short- the best thing you can do to support your creative side is to simply not GAF what anybody else thinks. Stand before your creation and ask "Does this make me feel happy at my very core?" If the answer is yes, that's all the validation you should need.

Everyone has a complicated side, and it's aptly named as it is indeed the most complicated side.

Now you can sit there (or perhaps you're standing and reading this, I don't judge your electronic consumption) and think, "Jenna, I'm the most reasonable, easy-going simplest person to get along with, there ever was." And this very well could be true, but you better believe you still have a complicated side.

It's that side that reaches for Google to find out if that funny skin discoloration is melanoma or rogue Cheetos dust. The side that hasn't made their bed in 10 years yet insists that the shampoos are lined in order of descending height on the shower ledge. The you that lays awake just a few minutes longer at night wondering if you could've said something just a little bit better when last talking to that coworker/friend/family member that day. Or that side that absolutely loves a good slice-em-dice-em bloody thriller but screamed like the world was ending during The Rock's last Armageddon film.

It's okay, we're all a little bit complicated.

Oh. You were expecting some advice?

Just learn to embrace it. Those things that others may find difficult quirks are what make you, you. And you're pretty freaking amazing.

Another of my favorite sides has to be my romantic side. It just may also be one of my most irrational sides because love can make someone act a fool, #AmIRight?

There are, of course, many types of love, and ROMANCE is but a category within a subcategory of love. For me it is the side that makes my heart pitter-patter when I see their face, it inspires me to wear the medieval torture device known as Spanx, plunge my size 12 ladie's feet into 6" pointed heels, and cool dinner for 2 at the end of a 12 hours day when my body feels nothing but exhaustion.

The good thing about romance is that it can be refreshing and renewing in itself. Much like a rush of endorphins, the right amount of romance can instantly turn any day or mood around and truly bring our dullest side back to life.

Of course there is no secret guide to falling in love, or having a happy marriage (should you progress to that point). Romance is but a single side of you and love requires the involvement of each and every single one of your sides! So it's important that I clarify my advice is in no way intended to promise wedded bliss, or a marriage proposal. As we've covered each one of us has many sides, and our partner their own sides to crash and collide with. It's a constant journey of exploration and discovery.

But for those lucky enough to express their romantic side through the form of an emotional or physical pairing, these tips might help you go confident and freshly into the great unknown:

• When it comes to romance, always lead with your HEART- It can be heard to follow one's heart when one's body can send them so many strong and conflicting signals on this topic but I've found the most rewarding romances were driven by my heart. They didn't always end the way I'd hoped or planned, but they are the ones I reflect upon with no regrets, and sincere appreciation today.
• Be open to NEW EXPERIENCES- Remember, romance involves more than one person, each with their own idea of what romance is. Don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and try something new at your partner's advice. After all, where else would you ever find yourself considering that new fusion food, talking about traveling to a new country, or even learning a new dance?
• Whether intimacy is current part of your romantic side, ensure that you feel intimately confident in all things. It can be hard to approach a situation with an open heart, or curious enthusiasm, when you feel sweaty, worn out, and bogged down in the dredges of the day that came prior. Build your confidence from the inside out with a quick refresh using Summer's Eve® Blissful Escape™ Cleansing Wash or Cleansing Cloths and take one less thing off the back of your mind.

In all there are many sides to me, and every person.

I suspect I will live every day to my very last continuing to discover these sides, and get to know them better, and I will never truly master any of them.

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Now, tell me, which of your sides do you like to embrace the most?

Amazing Summer BBQ Ideas On A Budget

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As a native Southern Californian I like to think I have a special leg up when it comes to the art of casual barbecuing.

And yes, us Southern Californian's can use a phrase such as 'casual bbq' because, for us, the weather is almost year-round opportune for the occasion. When one has the option to grill, or dine in their backyard, nearly any day of the year one does tend to consider it quite the norm. Regardless, the same secrets and tips I enjoy taking advantage of for my everyday bbq's are just as appropriate for those in the Eastern states where grilling is much more of a seasonal event.

That is to say, you can enjoy an amazing Summer BBQ, even on a budget.

As a self-proclaimed 99er I'd expect you to find no shock that I'm about to share with you how I have an amazing Summer BBQ on a budget thanks to 99 Cents Only Stores.

But, if we're being honest I'd bet you're actually a bit skeptical on the other side of that screen. And you're likely to have even more skepticism when I declare that you can not only buy your fresh fruits, vegetables, napkins, condiments, and snacks at 99 Cents Only Stores, but your proteins, desserts, sunscreen, pool floats, charcoal, grill brushes, and yes ACTUAL portable camping and backyard personal grills. You'll find all of these items, and more at your local 99, just in time for Summer grilling season! And, thanks to the amazing prices at the 99, your budget can go further than ever before!

The 99 isn't just a one-stop shop place to pick up all of your favorite name brand snacks, foods, and toiletries. As I've shown you time and again with my extensive series of holidays and entertaining on a budget posts, such as How To Rock Your 4th of July On A Budget and Back To School Gift Ideas For Every Age, you truly never know what you'll find at the 99!

While my local 99 has a large grocery and everyday staple selection they also have a continuous stock of licensed children's toys, gift sets and gift ideas for everyday, greeting cards, and an entire aisle (or more) of seasonal specialty merchandise. Currently my 99 is rocking a large selection of gardening tools and decor in addition to a front-and-center Summer BBQ display with all the essentials from potato chips and ketchup to charcoal grills and lighter fluid. It's the perfect destination for a last minute bbq, bbq on a budget, or to pack for a cookout on the road. I find I can often save up to 75% when I choose to shop the 99 over my local large mass retailer chain.

You might think you'd need to get creative to have a great BBQ on a budget, but it's almost the opposite when you shop the 99. I find there is such a plethora of inspiration and selection I have a hard time editing myself and my concepts.

For example, there are so many options for drinks, alone, that I tend to want to grab one or two of each of our friend's and family's favorites, just to have them on hand! Of course there are also more simplified serving solutions such as beverage dispensers, pitchers, fresh fruit for homemade lemonade, and large juice bottles for cocktails and mixers. With the value I find at the 99 I can even have a little fun and 'theme' an everyday weekend BBQ night with a few luau themed drinking straws, or gold rimmed pineapple appetizer plates!

For the purpose of this particular post, however, let's look at an everyday BBQ night for a family of 4-5. I'm about to give you a sneek peek into our delicious BBQ meal from this past weekend- a typical Saturday night for us here in SoCal.

Every great BBQ requires 3 main things, in my mind; 1.) plenty of delicious food to snack and graze on throughout an afternoon or evening, 2.) Lots of sunshine, and ideally water or outdoor sports, and 3.) Some form of fire prepared food for a main course. Supporting considerations for a successful BBQ will depend on your BBQ's setting and might include, a portable BBQ, disposable plates/utensils/napkins, unique and traditional condiments, and a few fun-in-the-sun toys and activities. You'll find all of these things at your local 99.

A BBQ should be fun, but also quite casual. You want to encourage your guests, even if it's just you and your family, to indulge and eat freely with their hands- to be able to go from drinking and eating back to recreating in a blink. Make sure you set up an outdoor area where plenty of finger foods/snacks are readily available in bite-sized portions. Don't be afraid to toss a bottle of sunscreen, and some extra sunglasses out with the napkins and plates for added convenience!

One of my biggest joys about a Summer BBQ is the convenience factor- nobody wants to have to spend hours cleaning up after. As a result we almost always rely on disposable plates and napkins, as well as simple lightweight chip and dip platters that rinse off easy. You'll find endless options for serving at the 99 in the currently featured Summer BBQ displays, and in their everyday party/entertaining aisles. Right now there were a bunch of cute plaid and gingham trays, napkins, and plates to choose from to really bring that BBQ/picnic feel visually to your cookout. For a little extra fun consider accenting your snack trays and platters with some outdoor toys such a squirt gun, or tossing a beach ball in the middle as a centerpiece. Simple 'extra' touches like these don't fit into my budget when I shop the big mass retailers but, thanks to the 99's low everyday prices, I can afford to add a few of these accents for a fraction of what I'd pay elsewhere.

Speaking of centerpieces, a great BBQ truly allows you to eat with your fingers, your mouth, and your eyes. A simple fruit sculpture such as this Watermelon Fruit Ship will really get you plenty of kudos, while helping to drive fingers towards healthier snacking options. For less than $5 this fun tabletop attention grabber was made with a small watermelon, fresh cherries, seedless grapes, a wooden kabob, and some construction paper from my local 99. I'd have a hard time putting such an adorable edible display together under $10 elsewhere.

Simply halve your watermelon lengthwise and core the red pulpy filling with a melon-baller tool. You can reserve the other half for another meal, make 2 ships, or double the amount of watermelon filling in your centerpiece. Pile your watermelon balls high in the cored out watermelon 'bowl', alternating with the fresh fruit of your choice. We typically go with cherries and grapes, but strawberries, raspberries, blueberries, and more all make for a delicious sailing party.

For the 'sails' you truly have complete creative liberties- go with one large dramatic sail, sailboat style, or lean towards a double mast galleon ship as we have chosen above.

When it comes to keeping everyone hydrated at a Summer BBQ you will be inclined to stock up on plenty of bottles water, and other bottled beverages in your family/guests favorite beverages. You'll find hundreds of name brands at the local 99 from Monster Energy Drinks and Mountain Dew throwback glass bottles (selection and availability varies by location and time of the year) to Arizona tea and Langers juice products.

Having such a variety available at amazing budget-worthy prices means I can often play around with crafting delicious mocktails that really help make our BBQs extra-special.

Try combining equal parts Langers Cranberry Juice, Dole 100% Pineapple Juice, and Parrot Coconut Water for a refreshingly tropical drink that makes any outdoor gathering a party. You know I am all about the presentation, so I always serve my 'Cran-Coco Sunset Mocktail' with crushed ice, laying the coconut water first, then pineapple juice, with a topping layer of cranberry. Serve with the beautiful gradient and toss a colorful plastic stirrer, from the 99 party aisle, in so guests can stir it up for maximum flavor!

Of course you can always increase the BBQ vibes and leave your favorite drinks and mixers out on the main table for guests to create their own mocktail creations as well. If you prefer to go this route consider having some freshly washed and prepared fruit and herbs, such as cilantro and mint, as well as selzter. Yes, you'll also find these things at the 99- along with some tumblers, disposable cups, entertaining glassware, shakers, tongs, and more.

Our Summer BBQs tend to last the better portion of an afternoon into the evening.

When the day's are long, and the nights roll up as if to continue one never-ending casual day, it truly is the best of times. Laughter by the pool, fun with the pups, mouthing an esteemed relative's signature tale for the hundredth time. It's hard to imagine one every really gets to a main course with all that grazing and good times!

Plain a main course that is heavy in protein but relies on many of the existing sides and snacks as suitable pairing options. That is to say stick with ribs, hamburgers, and sausages for more casual everyday Summer BBQ events. Proteins that don't require much fuss beyond a good char and a hearty piece of bread or scoop of starchy beans.

When I stumbled upon several boxes of Texas Toast in the freezer section of my local 99 I immediately knew I wanted to try a new Summer BBQ tradition, Polish Sausage Grinders.

These delicious garlic buttery, thick, bread slices are made to go straight from your freezer to your grill (or oven for everyday meals) and make the perfect Summer cookout companion as a bun or generous chunk of bread for BBQ sauces and drippings. Serve meat on them open-faced, or put a plate out alongside your main dish for guests to enjoy on their own.

I loved the idea of grilling split polish sausages on the grill because there was no prep needed on our end; in fact these polish sausages came in 3 heat varieties and were entirely cooked. I found them right in our local 99's cold case next to the deli meats and dairy products. One sausage was more than enough to feed 2-3 people, and at the 99's pricing was a complete bargain!

Also on our grill went some thick-sliced onion rings and 4 varieties of bell peppers- depending on the season and your local 99's availability you might also spot whole corn on the cob, beefsteak tomatoes, grilling zucchini, Portobello mushrooms, baking potatoes, and more. I'm always impressed with not only the variety of fresh fruit and produce at my 99, but the quality and size of options available. Thanks to the impressive savings at the 99 I can buy twice as much fresh fruit and veggies for what I would pay elsewhere. Once again, this is a department where I simply have a hard time choosing just a few things to toss on my plate- it always all looks so delicious!

Because great BBQ food should be first-most eaten with your eyes and nose encourage each guest to build their own plate to their liking. Offer plenty of condiments and sides so everyone can truly eat what they want, how they want. My father is more traditional and prefers to eat his components separately, digging into his sausage with a knife and fork, while Jay enjoys eating his open faced and slathered in mustard, and I enjoy tasting all of my fresh elements at once, in the form of a sandwich.

The ability to be versatile and relaxed in your eating style is key to making a good BBQ a great one- just be sure to have plenty of utensils and napkins on hand as faces and hands are bound to get a bit messy! Some other favorite BBQ additions include sauerkraut, a variety of pickles and olives, cheese cubes, crackers and chips, a pad of butter for bread and rolls, plenty of fresh greens and veggies, and plenty of drinks to refill those cups.

While some great BBQ proteins may take an entire afternoon of smoking these polish sausages were ready-to-eat direct from the package so our Grill Master only had to focus on giving them a good sear. (Everyone knows half the grill flavor is in the sear.) Choosing a ready-to-eat protein such as hot dogs and polish sausages can often make for an easier time when one is just learning to navigate a grill. It also gives the Girll Master more time to focus on the additional components, such as grilled veggies and toasted buns/bread.

Of course the true marking of a great Summer BBQ is one in which your neighbor pokes their head over the fence, or wanders into your campsite to causally remark on the enchanting smells. Make sure you always over-buy 20% of your anticipated consumption when planning a Summer BBQ. In general, estimate how much your party will eat and multiply it by .2. For example, for a gathering of 5, buy enough to feed 6. You never know when an uninvited guest will stop by- and if they don't someone is bound to be thrilled to have the leftovers to take home or heat up the following day.

Of course, if you're going to be hosting a Summer BBQ of substantial size and/or length, it's always most courteous to automatically invite your closest neighbors. They are, of course, the ones who will have to put up with the ruckus of loud noises and delicious smells in their own backyards for the duration. If you truly want to win a few neighborly points consider sending a plate or two over the fence on either side- it'll make for many more successful BBQs as the Summer winds on.

Naturally not all of your guests will so easily partake int he day's festivities- pets and children should always be afforded some extra consideration when preparing an outdoor entertaining event such as a Summer BBQ.

For example, make sure that all children present around a pool know how to swim, are outfitted with proper flotation devices, and monitored by a designated adult at all times when in a backyard with a pool. Keep adult and alcoholic beverages up top and high out of reach of curious hands- this includes chests with beers and malt beverages locked and properly secured. If you have small pets who are prone to exploration consider locking all side gates to your backyard and/or keeping them harnesses and close to their humans. Consider that not all human friendly foods are safe for pets and ensure that 'table' surfing is not taking place unless specifically encouraged for photography (*cough* our home.)

One thing I want to particular note for pet owners is to watch the 'grease trap' on your grill, as older pans can get leaky and leave dripping puddles underneath what is a VERY HOT bottom of your BBQ. As cute as it may be to see Fido begging beneath your feet at the grill it's best to practice safety and keep pups out from under afoot when grilling.

Whether your Summer BBQ is a small intimate event of an everyday family meal for 3 or 4, or a full blown all-day block party, it can be hard to keep track of where everything and everyone is at any time. The point of the day and meal is to relax and indulge so don't expect things to be tidy and perfect. When we BBQ things rarely go as planned so we are grateful to have extras on hand such as over-sized waste bags to double as trash bins, wet naps for spills and saucy hands, and extra towels and changes of clothes for the pool.

Wrapping our Summer BBQ with a simple dessert on the grill is a favorite pastime of my family.

While stocking up for our most recent BBQ I spotted some Keebler Graham Cracker Pie Crusts in 'bake' friendly pie tins. Just around the corner was an end-cap full of graham crackers and other S'mores inspired fixings. The rest of my plotting was Elementary, really.

With some freshly cut up bananas, jumbo marshmallows, graham crackers, and 2 types of Hershey's chocolate bars, we piled that pie crust full of S'mores deliciousness and set it in the center of our grill in High with the middle burners turned down and the side burners turned all the way up. With the grill-top closed for just shy of 10 minutes we had the most perfect golden brown, gooey, toasty marshmallow chocolate banana concoction. This 10-Minute Grilled Smores Dip was the perfect ending to a poolside day and Summer BBQ we are all too lucky to enjoy nearly every weekend in the Summer, here in So Cal.

I was able to add just a little extra magic to our 'everyday' Summer BBQ by purchasing everything from the local 99 Cents Only Stores location around the corner. I dare-say if we ever found ourselves in a pinch and ran out of ice we could easily stop in and grab a 5lb bag. It's such a great piece of mind knowing I can afford to make these everyday BBQ events truly memorable, and truly a Summer staple for our family by shopping on a budget at the 99.

Of course, when all is said and done it's really the people at your BBQ that make it a roaring success.
You can't quite put a price on that time the dog 'pushed' your Aunt into the pool while she hoisted her arm in a toast, or how the entire backyard comes to life and sings along when this year's Summer pop hit comes on the radio. The delicious food and fun decorations are great glue to build a bigger memory, but the time spent with those we love under blue skies and Summer sun is simply priceless. Help max your Summer BBQs and discover a 99 location near you.  Now, tell me, what are some of your favorite things to eat, or do at a Summer BBQ?