My favorite thing about the holidays, by far, is the excuse to spread a little goodwill and cheer. Growing up, Momma's mother, my grandmother, was notorious for opening her home to anyone in need. She would also, quite literally give you the watch/necklace/sweater off her back if you so much as complimented them. As she explained to me, many times before her passing, she was an especially blessed lady, with an exceptionally full and fortunate life, and the only thing she then desired was to spread the fortune with others. She volunteered with and fed the local nuns, kept the doors of her personal home open to any wayward employees on holidays (so that no one she knew would ever have to be alone,) and gave without hesitation when asked. She was a pretty freaking awesome lady, if I do say so.
What on Earth is Elfing?
Elfing is the act of playing seasonal 'Dong, Dong, Ditch,' with a positive outcome. Essentially an individual or family would put together a small gift basket to leave on a neighbor's door, anonymously. The 'Elf' (in this case you or your family,) would place a note with the basket of goodies explaining what has happened and asking the recipient to 'pass it on' by spreading more good cheer and acting as an elf themselves. This time of year I've seen 'Elves' deliver everything from a frozen turkey to a 'get better kit' for the seasonal woes. There are no rights or wrongs, really- the only goal is to have fun, and spread smiles.
For our 'Elfing' kit we decided to pick up a small pre-lit coffee table tree, some holiday hand soap, a delicious smelling candle, a pop up tape dispenser (for seasonal wrapping,) some light up 'snowballs,' a few of our favorite K-Cups, homemade cookies, and several packages of Anti-Viral Kleenex. Every home needs extra Kleenex on hand this time of the year, and we always have plenty to share thanks to the convenience of club pickup orders and bulk sizing at Sam's Clubhttps://ooh.li/8083a94. I thought the new Anti-Viral Kleenex were especially thoughtful and important since they will undoubtedly soothe AND protect my recipients throughout the season.
The neighbor we chose to elf happens to be friends with us on Facebook, so it was especially rewarding to see their enthusiasm online! Not only were they completely surprised by the gesture but the follow up responses to her post were quite excited and interested in the 'Elfing' process. I, personally, participate in a lot of 'swaps' this time of year because I like to shop for strangers and receive surprises. 'Elfing' is very similar, except you know someone else will receive the kind gesture in return. And that's precisely the good cheer the holidays are made of!
What Daughter Says: The holidays are a great reason to give, but life should be lived in the spirit of giving, no matter the season.
What a great idea! It's such a great thing to do random acts of kindness all year long, but even more so during the holidays.
ReplyDeleteLove this. I love random acts of kindness. I try to do this all year long, and make sure around the holidays to get my kids involved too! - Jeanine
ReplyDeleteI love the idea of Elfing!! It is so much fun to spread random acts of kindness like this. It always puts me in a great mood!
ReplyDeleteThoses Elf of the Shelf guys are so cute. I love the way you worked him into your post gift baskets featuring Kleenex.
ReplyDeleteYour grandmother sounds like she was a wonderful woman. I love hearing your stories about how generous and caring she was.
ReplyDeleteWhat a fun idea. I really should make some of these and send them to a couple neighbours. I love the gesture. Thanks for the idea.
ReplyDeleteI love this idea. When I was a kid, we used to do the 12 days of Christmas to 1 family every year. Each day we would ding dong ditch and leave a present for the 12 days before Christmas. So fun.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great concept! I will make sure to Elf one of my neighbors and your gift is lovely
ReplyDeleteThis is such a great way to extend kindness to others. I will do elfing too. Thanks for sharing.
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